Peanut and Product

During the last several months, I have had several friends announce their pregnancies. During my pregnancy with Dustin, I spent a considerable amount of time reading the Baby Bargains book and multiple, multiple websites and reviews of baby products to ultimately come to a conclusion about which items to purchase for my little man. I just love to pass on all of the good information that I found and that information which was given to me by many wise mothers who have walked the path before me!



And so, in honor of pregnant mothers who are making their registry lists, below I have listed a few of the products that have worked so well for us! As a bit of a disclaimer--none of the manufacturers have paid me to endorse their products. In fact, anytime I endorse a product, person, service or place on my blog, it is because I genuinely like their product/service/place/person.



First, let's talk about SIDS. While there is no product out there that will prevent SIDS, there are a few that I have used to reduce the risk of SIDS to Dustin. I was particularly paranoid about SIDS, since Dustin was born with a significant lung condition. But, there is lots of great advice out there; based on years of research and the number of infant deaths attributable to SIDS is at an all-time low. There are a few things that I have learned and implemented in our home:

• No co-sleeping;




• Firm mattress;




• No smoking around baby;




• Use a ceiling fan;




• Use a pacifier;




• No bumpers or blankets in the crib; and




• Back to sleep!

All of the above are certainly not absolutes. More detailed recommendations can be found at the American Academy of Pediatrics website, and other reputable organizations that provide education about SIDS. The above points were the rules that we followed, based on our own research. That being said, there are a few products that we use or have used that have provided us with more comfort regarding the chance for SIDS:

The product above is the Anglecare Motion Sensor monitor. The flat blue piece goes underneath the mattress and detects if the baby is no longer moving, including breathing. While this product does not reduce the chance of SIDS, it gave me comfort that if Dustin were to stop breathing the monitor would alarm. This product worked great, until Dustin began rolling all over the crib--at which point the monitor would alarm because it simply could not detect Dustin's movement (the pad is too small to cover the entire crib). By that time, Dustin was big enough to move around on his own and turn his head.

The second product that I still enjoy using is the breathable bumper. I elected not to use a bumper in Dustin's crib, after reading reports of severe and fatal injuries to infants who got caught in the soft fluffy bumper. But, we had troubles with Dustin waking up in the middle of the night with his little hands and feet stuck between the slats of the crib. And so, we found the Breathable bumper. The bumper is made of a very light netted material, which allows baby to breathe if his little head gets caught up against it. I really like this product!

This next project is a fun one. It is the excersaucer that Tim picked out. I must say, this was the Mercedes of excersaucers, but turned out to be well worth it! It comes with a play mat that baby can lie on and play with some of the removable parts. Once Dustin was older, he enjoyed playing in the circle. Now, the circle has been taken apart, to form half of figure eight. Dustin can walk around it and continue to play with all of the toys. And, the fun will continue with Dustin's brother or sister.

The last product review for the evening is a sheet set from Clouds and Stars. This was, bar none, one of the best gifts that I received. I received the gift after Dustin had been home for several, several weeks. By this time, I had struggled with changing wet sheets in the middle of the night. (If your baby mattress fits the crib snuggly, it is so hard to change the sheet.) This set completely took away that frustration! The bottom portion stays in the crib, while the top "sheet" simply zips in. So, when your baby wets the crib, there is much, MUCH greater ease in the changing. And, when I went to search for the URL for posting, I noticed that the set is a bit cheaper on Amazon!

I have been thinking about baby products more frequently lately. Our little "Peanut" is now approximately 12 and 1/2 weeks in uterus! Dustin will soon have a little brother or sister and we will have to replenish our baby products!

When I picked up Dustin from the daycare today, I received some good news! Apparently, my blog has now earned me with a referral fee for a parent who chose to sign their son/daughter up at Creation Kingdom after reading about it on my blog!! (Reminder--see disclaimer, above.) Of course, this is so unintended and unexpected!! I am pretty excited and this has now motivated me to update my blog more regularly. So, whomever you are -- THANK YOU!!

The Costs of a Child

MSN Money recently reported that the cost of raising one child is $270,000 through the age of 17. This calculation does not even include the costs of college tuition. This so called "cost" has been reported all over the news and media during the past few weeks. Last week, I saw a very nice power point presentation going over the "costs of raising a child". I searched for the power point so that I could share it here. Unfortunately, I did not have success in locating the presentation. However, I did find the words that accompanied the slide and have reproduced them below:

The Cost of a Child
What do your get for the estimated $160,140.00 a child will cost you over your lifetime?
Naming rights. First, middle, and last!
Glimpses of God every day.
Giggles under the covers every night.
More love than your heart can hold.
Endless wonder over rocks, ants, clouds, and warm cookies.
A hand to hold, usually covered with jam.
A partner for blowing bubbles, flying kites, building sandcastles, and skipping down the sidewalk in the pouring rain.
Someone to laugh yourself silly with no matter what the boss said or how your stocks performed that day.
For $160,140.00, you never have to grow up.
You get finger-paint, carve pumpkins, play hide-and-seek, catch lightning bugs, and never stop believing in Santa Claus.
You have an excuse to keep reading the Adventures of Piglet and Pooh, watching Saturday morning cartoons, going to Disney movies, and wishing on stars.
You get to frame rainbows, hearts, and flowers under refrigerator magnets and collect spray painted noodle wreaths for Christmas, hand prints set in clay for Mother's Day, and cards with backward letters for Father's Day.
For $160,140.00, there is no greater bang for your buck. You get to be a hero just for retrieving a Frisbee off the garage roof, taking the training wheels off the bike, removing a splinter, filling the wading pool, coaxing a wad of gum out of bangs, and coaching a baseball team that never wins but always gets treated to ice cream regardless.
You get a front row seat to history to witness the first step, first word, first bra, first date, and first time behind the wheel.
You get to be immortal. You get another branch added to your family tree, and if you're lucky, a long list of limbs in your obituary called grandchildren.
You get education in psychology, nursing, criminal justice, communications, and human sexuality that no college can match.
In the eyes of a child, you rank right up there with God. You have all the power to heal a boo-boo, scare away the monsters under the bed, patch a broken heart, police a slumber party, ground them forever, and love them without limits, so one day they will, like you, love without counting the cost.




I personally enjoyed the PowerPoint presentation and the words to accompany are certainly well stated and absolutely true! My little man is priceless! So, what is Dustin up to these days?

• Little Man just turned 13 months old!
• Dustin is eating, eating and eating!! He will no longer eat baby foods, but wants to feed himself everything that the big people eat! And...a lot of it! On Sunday after church we went to Bob Evans--he at half a pancake (and not your mamma's silver dollar cakes), cantaloupe and his Cheerios!! We attempted kids night at Fazoli's this evening...he did not like is spaghetti. I am amazed by how much he can eat. And boy, if he does not get his meals in a timely manner...watch out!
• Dustin just learned to shake his head (as in "no"), but I don't think he knows what it means--he thinks it is funny. Daddy read a passage from the bible at dinner a few nights ago about not being with an adulterous woman--Dustin shook his head "no"!
• Dustin enjoys pulling himself up and holding onto our fingers to walk with us. A few weekends ago he walked around the house behind his lion walker that grandpa got him for his birthday! He walked for a long time! He will soon be independently mobile on the two feet! Below is a photo of Little Man with his walker:
  
  
  

• A few mornings ago, Dustin was in my room while I finished getting ready for work. When it was time to leave, I said, "Let's go Dustin!" Dustin crawled to the door! He is so smart!
• My Little Man used to be the cat's meow at daycare (the only boy amongst the girls). Last week, another little boy joined him! Little Man likes to play with his new little friend who is a boy!
• Little Man is still wearing size 4 diapers. He also wears 12-18 month clothing. He is very tall and is growing fast.
• He no longer likes the toothbrush. Mommy and Daddy have to pretend that they are also brushing their teeth (with his toothbrush) in order to get him to brush his teethers (and he has a mouth full). We will be making a pediatric dental appointment in the next month. I am looking for some recommendations for good pediatric dentists.
• Dustin went on his first kayaking trip a few weekends ago! He clearly enjoyed the ride, but not the lifejacket! Below is a photo:

And so, $270,000, WHAT A BARGAIN!!!!

A Visit with the Fishes

We had a good time today visiting the aquarium near Cincinnati!

We left shortly after church (stoping to have lunch, since Dustin decided it was time). Dustin was a little sleepy, since he did not have much of a nap before our trip today. He did still show excitement over the multicolored fish. I even petted a shark! Here are a few photos of our adventure:

Dustin and I playing on a big frog in the frog bog:

Two alligators laying on top of one another:

Jellyfish (hopefully we will forget about this image before our next swim in the ocean):

Daddy and Dustin (look at that face):

Ah, yes! Multicolored fishes are the best!

We have had a fairly low key couple of weeks. Dustin has progressed to eating mostly table foods--he wants to eat with Mommy and Daddy and loves to eat the foods that we eat! He is also now drinking his milk from a sippy cup. We bought the Born Free sippy cups and those have been the only ones that he likes! He has also taken to climbing all of the steps so that he can go into his room to play with the toys stored there. He is a pretty fast climb!

We have some other exciting news. But, we'll be keeping the suspense for a little while longer!